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How to get back together and save your relationship or marriage by Relationship Coach Rinatta Paries on July 13, in ArticlesBreak-ups and DivorceDatingMarriageRelationships Many couples go through struggles, fights, problems, and issues, and almost reach the brink of breakup or divorce.
They would much rather find a way to get back together and stay together. But how do you get back together so that you can save your relationship or marriage?
Here are the steps a couple must engage in to get back together and stay together successfully. You will also find actions each partner should take individually to survive while the relationship is being repaired. Do this together to get back together and save your relationship or marriage: To get back together and stay together you two must commit to the relationship and to each other deeply.
You both must commit to try and try again to make your relationship work. Instead of taking the attitude of defining conditions that would make you leave the relationship, decide that you are in fact going to get what you want in your relationship.
The question to ask is not if you are going to get what you want, but when, and how you are going to get more of what you want so that both of you are happy. Figure out what went wrong in your relationship or marriage To save your relationships or marriage, both of you must honestly look at what you did to get your relationship to its current state.
All defensiveness must be set aside, all excuses thrown out the window, so you can honestly see what happened. It does your relationship absolutely no good to point fingers at each other.
And it is a disservice to your relationship if only one of you is willing to own the blame or responsibility for what happened.
Both of you must come to the table equally willing to own everything you have contributed to the current state of your relationship. If you want help, I am an excellent relationship diagnostician.
In one coaching session I can tell you exactly what went wrong in your relationship and show each of you how you contributed to the situation. Work on yourselves These are the most critical steps you can take to succeed in getting back together and staying that way: Work on the issues and personality traits that got you and your relationship into trouble.
Do everything in your power to turn your issues around. Together, read all the helpful books you can get your hands on. Take classes and attend groups together. Get yourselves a coach or therapist.
Take significant action daily to show each other you care and value each other and your relationship. Deal with the pain the two of you caused each other When ready, each of you needs to talk about the pain caused by the other, with each person listening intently and taking it in.
You both need to share the pain, listen to each other and find a way to truly forgive and start anew. Talk to each other often Make sure you communicate clearly with each other about what you want and expect in the relationship. Make sure that you both know what each one of you is agreeing to do or not do.
Talk about your feelings and experiences. Share with each other what you are discovering in your personal work. Use communication to connect. Take action to cure what led to your breakup or the distance between you Do not communicate only and do nothing else — this is how most couples who are trying to get back together fail.
They eventually destroy the relationship by the same actions that got them to separate or breakup in the first place. You must take many actions to specifically cure, fix, change, shift and transform the behavior and thinking patterns that brought you two to the brink of a breakup.
Create joyful moments together, even if they start out small Spend snippets of time together, just being close.
Bring back — or increase — physical intimacy, even if it feels a bit awkward. At the same time, do not throw yourselves back into the thick of the relationship until the hard personal work has been done by both of you.
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